Live and don’t learn.

BN-HG637_0305ca_H_20150305173513I used to read a lot of Calvin and Hobbes books when I was younger.

There was something in the mind if a six year old boy that resonated quite well with me, occasionally I return to them for a half hour of joviality.

One particular strip stuck with me, after barrelling down an improbably steep hill and sailing through the air on his little red cart, he and his tiger companion landed unceremoniously in a heap of tangled limbs and dust. Turning to his Hobbes he asks, “do you suppose there is something we should learn from this?” They both shrug and wander home picking dirt and grass from bedraggled clothing.

It is customary to spend a little time at this juncture in our lives pondering the past and looking to the future with renewed aspirations.

In Scotland we are not so good at that.

Most people adopt a “suck it and see” kind of attitude to life.

Over the holidays I have indulged in many movies, they are and always have been a great source of relaxation and inspiration for me. I can recount the details of so many great stories because of them.

We sat as a family for the first time and watched A Wonderful life, I didn’t recall the dialogue being so amusing. We watched my favourite film, Groundhog day, I never get tired of Bill Murray in that story. My daughter watched two other Christmas films that basically ripped off Groundhog Day in a vastly inferior tv movie fashion.

Whilst wrapping presents I watched Bill Murray again in St Vincent, I really enjoyed that. His youthful neighbour slowly warming to the grumpy drunk and in turn melting him a little. The best line was when the boy says to his mum that Vincent’s girlfriend worked nightshift, when he had actually told him she was a lady of the night.

In my brother in laws basement on boxing day we watched the Ridley Scott’s Exodus on a nine foot screen. No film has changed my perception of a Biblical story more than that one. Certainly there are some clinical errors but the overall picture is one of a man changing cultures and struggling to do so.

The last two I want to mention (there were many more) were both set in snow and ice. By the time I got through them I felt cold. Not that numbed to the bone cold that you get standing in a windy park waiting for a fire show to start. There was an irony! On New years day we went to a fire and light display, it was supposed to be a celebration of a New beginning with a climactic inferno of burned up wishes which were poked into a wicker tree.

An hour of watching dreadlocked, fire spinning people to the incessant drum beat and droning music, whilst being relelentlessly battered by a freezing East wind left the crowd depleted and numb. By the time the tree was eventually torched nobody cared any more and we all hastily retreated to the warmth of our homes.

The hateful eight was classic Tarantino, miles of back story and a messy climax, you either like his work or not, I get it. The reviewer in the New Yorker didn’t, neither did he appreciate the last movie I watched.

Leonardo de Caprio is a firm favourite of mine, I just like him.

But two and a half hours of crawling about in snow and icy water was just too much. He survived a litany of disasters before we joined the story and then during the movie. Fair play to him that he dragged himself to the bloody final battle with Tom Hardy. What I took from it was that having been through all of that heartache and pain and being consumed with bitter hatred and revenge, he still lost everything. There was no change other than a tiny hint that revenge was not his to take.

We can’t keep not learning.

I know that is a terrible sentence, but it stands true, we must stop the hurtful, damaging habits or they will destroy us and those around us.

I have been confronted with this reality in the last week and am determined to act!

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